It’s the age of instant, global communication. We can Google, Bing, and Yahoo our way to information that used to take days or months to obtain. With the swipe of a smartphone we can whisper to a friend on the other side of the world. Communicating and informing has never been easier. Why, then, are we screaming at each other?
Many topics popped up over the last few weeks that had me itching to write: Rush Limbaugh’s reinvention of the word prostitute, Bill Maher calling Sarah Palin that worst of all obscenities, Katie vs. Sarah in the mornings, Keith Olbermann’s serial whining, birthers who won’t take their meds, and politicians who engage in a daily game of “I know you are, but what am I?”
Each of those topics – and many more – are ripe for the ranting. If you read this blog regularly (of course, I’d have to post it regularly for that to be possible), then you know I’m as capable of a good rant as the next person.
Maybe that’s part of the problem: with the world at our fingertips, we’re all too eager to join the public conversation. Except that the public conversation basically consists of “You’re wrong, I’m right.” “Yankees Suck.” (I’m actually okay with the last one.)
We’re not conversing. We’re not listening. We’re declaring victory and hitting “send.”
The Tea Party was borne of people outraged with government overspending and overreaching. Occupy __________ [pick a location] was borne of people outraged with economic disparity and social injustice. These were both relatively unorganized, grass roots movements with multiple factions within themselves deserving of attention and examination. Government has grown beyond what we can afford, it does interfere too much, there is no excuse for hunger in America, and we should all have access to affordable health care. Often the disagreement isn’t on the declaration, it’s on how to achieve a solution.
But instead of having actual conversations, instead of listening to each other to find common ground, politicians, media outlets, and, to some degree, the movements themselves have co-opted the zeitgeist to a point where we have a take-no-prisoners power struggle to reinforce and promote partisan agendas and increase page views and ratings.
The true believers and their fellow travelers don’t seem to tire of the rhetoric. They love the noise, the chaos, the fight. There was a time when I did too. But there comes a time when the reality of the world not being black and white – or, in current parlance, red or blue – gives rise to less certainty and more circumspection.
You tend to shout less, talk more. And above all, listen.
Felicia Knight is President of Knight Vision International, LLC
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